Symbol: Crab
House: Fourth House
Ruling Planet: Moon
Gemstone: Pearl
Element : Water
Quality: Cardinal
Perfect jobs: chef, nursery school
teacher
Pleasure: baking, comfort, children
Pain: snide remarks,
forgetfulness, crab jokes
What's my line? Home is where the heart is
Personality
Certainly not the easiest person to
understand, you are an introvert with a capital I. Emotions are hidden beneath
the tough exterior that you possess. Although you can be kind and affable, your
mood swings are unpredictable, tending to be bitter and melancholic, often
feeling hurt unnecessarily. While you like to draw sympathy, you can be fairly
insensitive towards others, snapping, being rude and short-tempered. However,
your seemingly cruel behavior is only a clever means to hide your own
insecurities and complexes. Inside, you are almost like a timid, hurt child.
You can be admirably kind, generous, understanding and gracious, if all is well
with you. you have a conscience that prompts you to do the right things - like
standing by people in their time of need. You have an urge to travel to distant
lands but you are a home-loving person.. You tend to make a mountain out of the
molehill and are prone to self-pity. Reserve some of your sensitivity for
others who may need it.
Cancer, the fourth Sign of the Zodiac, is
all about home. Those born under this Sign are 'roots' kinds of people and take
great pleasure in the comforts of home and family. Cancers are maternal,
domestic and love to nurture others. More than likely, their family will be
large, too -- the more, the merrier! Cancers will certainly be merry if their
home life is serene and harmonious. A
Cancer's good memory is the basis for stories told around the dinner table, and
don't be surprised if these folks get emotional about things. Those born under
this Sign wear their heart on their sleeve, which is just fine by them.
It's said that Crabs are first to laugh and first to cry, so you
can bet they'll fill you in. That shell, by the way, isn't the only tough thing
about Crabs .That said, any self-respecting Crab would tell you that they are
ultimately motivated by protecting their home and loved ones, a most noble
goal.
The Moon is associated with fertility, too,
a quality which is most pleasing to Cancerians. The Moon is also the ruler of
moods, and Cancers have plenty of those. These folks can cry you a river if
they're so inclined, and they usually are. They can be overly sensitive, easily
hurt and prone to brooding. Even so, Crabs find it easy to be sympathetic to
others and are quick to show their affection. Their intuition is also a great
help to them, especially in times of stress.
The great strength of the Cancer-born is the tenacity with which
they protect their loved ones. These folks don't ask for much, either: a comfortable
home and sense of peace about sums it up. It's that nurturing instinct which
makes Cancerians a pleasure to be with.
Fashion
Happiness is a sweater that has been your friend for years. Almost as attached to clothing as you are to your loved ones, you've spent years trying to bring back parachute pants, nehru jackets and jumpsuits. Some of these things may still be in your wardrobe, as will the most comfortable styles from every trend that catches your eye from now on. Even clad in the most traditional or comfortable of garb, you always keep an air of femininity about your wardrobe. Lace takes precedence over denim, and cargo pants are definitely out. One of the only things you spend haphazardly on is lingerie, from sports bras to sultry nighties. A favorite outfit might be a long, flowing skirt with a v-neck sweater and a raincoat. On warm days, beachwear and wraps with sandals are a must.
Long necklaces and pretty jewelry makes any outfit complete. Pearls are a favorite, and any shade of green is a pleasure to don. You probably don't go much for makeup, unless it is soft and easy to manage. You might not even own a blow dryer, preferring to let your hair dry naturally and hang down over your shoulders. On busy or windy days, you may only pause to pull it back in a loose knot. Cancer prefers to dress for the comforts of home and isn't given to new trends, but you know how to look for the world outside.
Friendship
The Crab is likely
to send you frequent invitations to dinner. Of course, they enjoy your company,
but they love it when you come over and complement them on their house,
decorations and excellent cooking skills. They make loyal friends, so long as
you do nothing to betray their trust. If you can handle a super emotional pal
who is likely to call you up and cry into the phone for no reason, you will
have a devoted buddy who is just as likely to arm themselves with a box of
tissues and come to your aid when you're feeling blue.. As a friend of a
Cancer, you'll never need to worry about recording important events. Your
favorite Crab will always be there with a camera. As your friendship grows,
your Cancer buddy will likely invite you to family dinners as a matter of
course. A Cancer who is hurt hurts deeply and for a long time, though, so take
care with the fragile emotions of your friend.
Best Friend Bets: Taurus, Virgo
Love
Call
it a sixth sense, good gut or intuition, but whatever the name, the Crab has
it. Members of this sign have an excellent
instinct for which partner will serve them well and, once they hone in, it's a
laser beam shot. Cancer's charm and magnetism are qualities which will prove
most alluring to a lover and, coupled with their nurturing need, will prove
hard to resist. The Crab loves to feel secure, so a lover who remembers
birthdays and other special days, or simply pops a bottle of champagne for no
special reason, will be rewarded with tenderness and affection. If the Crab
tests a lover with occasional bouts of jealousy, it's only because a stronger
emotional response is craved. The ideal Cancer soul mate can spoon on the couch
and watch TV all night long. A slow, yet smoldering, courtship is what the Crab loves. What's the rush, anyway? The Crab is determined to win, so the prelims should go on for as long as possible. Once love is in the air, Cancerians prove themselves devoted lovers, protective of the object of their affections, and unusually helpful and sympathetic. The Crab is an emotional bag of tricks and will feel most things very strongly, so don't be the one to cross them. That said, Cancer may be the perfect sign for a lover seeking pampering and seduction, someone who is willing to learn a thing or two in the game of love. An honest love -- and lover -- become Cancer, for it is in this safe environment that they are best able to create a warm home and indulge their nurturing instincts.
Teens
Boy
: The Cancer lad is very emotional
and apt to mood swings. He often takes offence when none is intended. He is
family oriented and a deeply caring person. You can count on him to help out
with family chores. He is bound to be involved in sports, preferably those
requiring a team effort as he is drawn towards the camaraderie of a team. His
hobbies usually involve collecting things. He never throws away anything. He is
a natty dresser, though he is certainly not narcisstic . He tends to be a bit
of a miser and rarely spends money on himself. Since Cancer rules the stomach,
he usually has a healthy appetite, so make sure the fridge is always stocked.
Girl
Girl
More emotional than the average girl, she
appreciates the nurturing aspects of home and hearth. She is dependable and
does not view her duty as a chore, but really a pleasure. A true nurturer, she
is a comfort-giver to all around. The Cancer girl goes through life with a
shell around her that is not easily cracked. If fact, she can stay in that
shell until she's sure it is safe to step outside. Most Cancerians are apt to
be crabby from time to time, and the Cancer girl is no exception. However, for
most part, she has a cheerful disposition. She takes her studies seriously and
can retain information well, thanks to her good memory, which also makes her
good at taking exams. She will sail through her exams with flying colours. She
is apt to view college merely as a means to a great career rather an end in
itself.
Marriage Life
For you the home is of great consequence,
and family life is very important to you. You will tend to marry early because
you want a settled life. The Cancerian woman makes a great mother; she has the
patience that goes with motherhood. She enjoys fulfilling all the traditional
roles of a marriage, including cooking sumptuous meals for the family, being a
good mother and devoted wife. With the Cancer woman, whether she owns a book or
a man it's forever!
Luck
Pale
yellow, silver, violet and light green are good colours for Cancerians. You are
not really affected by Monday blues. In fact, Mondays will find you upbeat, as
solutions come easy and things seem to go on the right track - it is your lucky
day. For those Cancerians who like jewellery or like to wear gemstones for
luck, pearl and moonstone would be a good. You're lucky number is two. The moon
is your ruler and your element is water
Karmic Lesson
If a Cancer is around someone who is irritable
or tense, suddenly Cancer is irritable and tense as well. It is most important
for a Cancer to learn to build better personal boundaries to protect against
this sensitive nature. If Cancers can learn to emotionally self-regulate a bit
better, no one will ever have cause to call them moody again!Just because they're emotional doesn't mean they're pushovers. In fact, Cancers can be quite tenacious and they love getting their way. If kindness doesn't work, they just may resort to emotional manipulations to try to get things going. If they end up not getting what they were after, they can become vindictive. Cancers are excellent at holding a grudge, but must try to stop and ask themselves, "What do I gain from maintaining a grudge against someone?" The answer is, nothing. Keeping anger alive and thriving inside oneself is a hugely taxing endeavor, a real drain on energy -- and has no real payoff. Cancer would do well to remember that the next time things don't go as planned.
To lean too far to one extreme is to upset the natural balance. One of Cancer's strengths is lending others a nurturing, sympathetic ear; perhaps when brooding sets in, it would help for Cancer to turn that energy outward, away from the self and toward someone else. Feeling sorry for oneself doesn't do any good; like nursing a grudge, it merely amounts to time and energy wasted.
Love of security and the attendant fear of the unknown can result in quite a possessive streak. Possessiveness is just one more thing that is a waste of one's personal energy. Material possessions don't make us more or less worthy; a lover's fidelity can't be assured by clinging to them possessively. Cancer must learn to accept a certain level of unpredictability in life, as the one thing that never changes is change itself.
Profession
You have a keen intellect and are good with
your hands. You will make commendable painters and sculptors. You will be
successful in sales and will do well in advertising and marketing for the food
and drinks industry, discussing new campaigns over long lunches, or deals over
a lazy breakfast would be utopia to you. Some of you may take to writing as
your full-time profession, mix that with being a food critic and the world
could be your oyster. Don't mistake a Cancer for an underachiever -- they're working it as much and as well as the next person, albeit in a subtle, low-key manner. The Crab's sensitive nature is readily apparent in business dealings, preferring a non-confrontational approach that protects them as well as those around them. Caution is the Cancerian's byword, lest they be forced to retreat into that handy-dandy shell.
The Crab likes to lead, and as long as these folks are comfortable with their proscribed duties and their colleagues in the quest, they will probably succeed. As long as their emotions can be kept in check, Cancerians can create a space of harmony and happiness for all. This empathetic and intuitive quality also makes the Crab a natural nurturer and someone well suited to the caregiver role, whether it's as teacher, healer or protector.
. Think of an art therapist or family counselor, and you're talking the Crab's talk. A word of caution to co-workers: Don't cross the diligent Crab. Those pincers have some sharp claws!
Cancerians are well suited as doctors, pharmacists, teachers, nutritionists, chefs, realtors -- anywhere they can feel truly useful.
Fitness
Travelers
Armchair travel may have been been invented for Cancerians ….
You are always happy when you are near water. You love to swim, sail or boat on holidays. Water has an added attraction for you. You are not very adventurous where new places are concerned so you normally keep visiting the same destination over and over
... the better to stay safe and warm in their trusty shells. Not
the most adventurous members of the Zodiac, those born under this sign are
happy to stay at home, or they'll generally go somewhere close to home when
they do venture out. And you can bet they won't go alone -- the whole family
comes along when the Crab travels, providing the emotional security which these
folks seek. It's very possible that the entire clan will crowd into a roomy RV
and just hit the road.
House of Family and Home
Much of the emphasis of the Fourth House, however, is on the
concept of home. By laying down roots, we make a home for ourselves, or more
specifically, the self. It's worth noting that in addition to the external home
(all the bricks and mortar around us), we have really brought the essential
self home. 'I'm home.' The words themselves have a peaceful ring to them. The
self is now centered, grounded, one and at peace with the Earth. We seek to
come home both physically and psychically, for ourselves and for those we love.
By creating home, we create a meeting place, a sanctuary, a sacred place for
ourselves and for others.
In our home, we integrate the self with all that has come before
us and helped to shape what we are today. We create a domestic space which comforts
and nurtures us and serves to keep safe those we love. Also important here are
family history, cultural and societal norms, and ways of being. All of these
are ruled by the Fourth House, as are our ancestry, roots and heritage. These
qualities are brought 'home' through us and integrated into the place we call
home.
The Fourth House is ruled by the Sign Cancer
and the Moon.
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